I don't get why some TS might do all these surgeries and feel superior, yet when the subject of voice comes up, they start dancing around it?

Since when did something hidden in your jeans become more important than something that everyone hears?

They might be like, "I tried and I cannot do it". Well, neither could a lot of voice-trained TS either, at one point.

So me, I get called "she/ma'am" more often than not, and I don't think I "pass" really. I stand to pee (yes I said it) and am not girly-girl. yet my voice never gives me away. So where does that put an Erin?