I've decided to ask this in light of what has happened to Karren and something tifftg said in her thread.
So, you're married, or living together and have this secret. As the years go by, it gets harder and harder to tell your wife/partner that you are a crossdresser. Before you know it, 20+ years have gone by and she/he still has no clue what you are secretly doing.
So what drives you to keep this a secret, what do you fear the most happening to you if you ever decide to tell her/him that you crossdress?
Will you ever tell your wife/partner that you are a crossdresser?
This isn't limited to those who have been with their partners a long time, I'd like to hear from anyone who is married or has a partner that has no idea their husband/partner is a CD and the reasons that they don't know.