...but should I? I know this question gets raised a lot. The short time since I've been here I've seen people struggle w/ who to tell and if.
We haven't dated in years. She's moved on and has a steady now. I rarely see her but when I recently did....wow! She is a hottie and very feminine. That's one reason I'd like to tell her. She's about 5'10 w/o heels and very petite (and we wear the same shoe size). Another reason is that she's really into fashion and worked in woman's retail for years. She would have some good tips and would probably help me shop, if she accepted it that is....
I think she could go either way, as most people could, with her reaction. She does have gay friends. Even though I'm not gay she's at least accepting of alternative lifestyles. But would she have the same viewpoint w/ an ex? Don't know... Another risky element is that I live in a small town and things have a way of getting out and about...
Any advice?