SO ive been shaved legs for a couple of weeks now, it was great, my wife helped and was a part of the process (was important to me to have her part of it). i wore my first pair of stockings without looking gross like chewbaka in lingerie. My short club dresses look amazing now and i have serious gazelle legs and i love it.
The topic of going out together is been in heavy conversation ever since. One of my big hangups was removing arm and chest hair....to me it is something that i have had reservations about, but last night that all changed. i was plucking my eyebrows in the bathroom and talking to my wife. And she said "so are we goin out this weekend?" I said "not as a hairy man in a dress" She says "i told you to go ahead and do it" (meaning Veeting my arms and chest) I started to make excuses as to why i hadnt yet....She grabbed the veet and had a glob in her hand before i could get a few words out of my mouth.....I was still protesting some, but when her hand hit me square in the chest i knew enough to just shut up and quit acting like i didnt want it...I was so nervous and still am sitting here this morning looking at my bare arms.
Im in this place right now where i wonder how long its going to be before ppl start noticing...what im going to say....and how im going to deal with it when my friends give me a hard time about it.
But i can say with all the anxiety that i had built up about it i am glad that she helped me to take that first step. I figure id rather have anxiety i can deal with rather than have anxiety about something i wouldnt try.
Seriously tho, my nipples hurt like hell....i dont know if its just sensitive from being bare or if it was the veet chemical.....i guess ill find out next time.....My skin is crazy sensitive on my chest but my arms are much more comfortable now.
I have some friends here that have listened to me vent about anxieties from all this, i want to say thank you for listening to me rant from time to time. You help so much.
Well anyway wish me luck on my first day in the real world as a bare skin diva
Maybe the next step will be going out?....she has been looking for places online....it really cool of her
Sugar, if your reading this "I LOVE YOU"
The Dark Lotus,
-Donni-