One thing I do notice is that many here will refer to themselves as CD's, TV's, TG's. T-Girls or what ever but those are more or less "things" and with those terms certain images are conjured up by others.I use those terms as a point of reference only. Does anyone ever think of themself as simply an en femme person and relate to that? When I think of others, I think about who they are as a person and not so much as a term describing what they are. Did anyone ever stop to think that perhaps we need to change our perspective of our outlook to just be looked at as people? Just a thought.