Under-dressing

[Joe]

I started underdressing over thirty years ago when I was dressing for work and was out of clean (men's) underwear. I mentioned this to my wife and she said (kind of jokingly) "well, wear a pair of mine." So, I did. I found that they fit perfectly, were far more comfortable, and gave me a little rush. I have been wearing panties ever since. My wife and I share panties - we have only one underwear drawer for the both of us. I have been wearing them so long, I don't care who knows. I don't own a pair of men's underwear, and haven't for many, many years. I wear them to the doctor's office - I have a female doctor who is also a friend, and she actually encourages me to wear something "interesting" when I come in for a checkup. I pick the frilliest pair I can find - silk, lace and bows - pink or flower pattern - sometime a thong - when I go in for an appointment.

Most of my close friends know I wear panties, and sometimes when a couple comes to the house to watch a game or something, I'll hang around with just a pair of panties on. Recently, I went on a guided whitewater rafting trip and had to change into a wetsuit in a locker room with about thirty other guys changing. I was wearing a pair of black, sheer, nylon/spandex bikini panties with tuxedo lace. Nobody even raised an eyebrow, and I wouldn't have cared if they did. I'm very comfortable with this.

I wear pantyhose in the winter, and babydoll nighties to bed, but that is the extent of my crossdressing. I would love to CD full-time, but it just wouldn't look good - I'm just not built right. I have no qualms at all about going ito a store and buying panties or nighties.

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

I under dress always, have no mens briefs. I wear a bra only when it will not be obvious, wife doesn't want anyone to know of my dressing preference. In the winter when I wear heavy clothes, mainly sweatshirts are a good way to hide the bra straps. I wear nighties to bed most nights and have matching sets with my wife, it's all fun when we don the same outfit without any prior mention of what we are going to wear to bed. I would think that your wife would be very open to full dress since there is no way to hide the fact that you crossdress since you wear a bra and forms out publicly. Has anyone ever mentioned it to you? By the way I am also in a suburb west of Chi town, Rockford. Going to the Sox game tonight and oh yes I will be wearing my fav bikini panties.

[revned]

I have been wearing only panties for about 6 months now, after I got approval of my girlfriend. It was an interesting experience when she found out.

[sissystephanie]

My late wife went far beyond helping me underdress!! She knew that I was a crossdresser when we married! Since she was an expert makeup artist, she always did my makeup and fixed my wig before I went out in public! I do love to underdress and do wear panties and a bra almost every single day. My children both know that I crossdress, but I do not wear panties when I am around them! Actually I do wear a bra every single day! I have done so, except for my time in the military, since I was age 9! A doctor told my dad that I should wear a bra because I had very feminine breasts and if I did not wear a bra they would sag!! My breasts were 36 B's at the time and are now 40 B's!! Actually they are very close to being a C!!

[Samatha Porchers]

Its wonderfull to find a forum were i can finally relate to and find support, i too find it sublime to under-dress , and recently found out my SO is enthralled when she found out i do,
she even wants help me shop for my choice of panties and bras. always were satin or silk panties and love camisoles , if i use pantyhose though i always use a halfslip with them , jeans can be tough on nylons , have a full collection of full slips and a few satin half slips, i use a size 34 B satin padded bra and matching bikini underwear with a confortable full slip or cami ,useing a black Tshirt and due to a slight heavy stature *175 LBS i can get away with it out in public (the common manboob syndrome being a bit over weight? :P)

its nice to know my SO enjoys me being a CD and it relly boosts my morale , if your wondering what the image is on my profile pic that me in Secondlife i go full out female and also im what is known as a *Anthro furry, both me and my SO relly enjoy shopping for outfits both in that world and IRL. if you want to meet me in SL my Avatar name is mobiusonemasterchief infinity. every one just calls me Mobius , as was the true first name i wanted but that was taken as was mobiusone so i had to meld a combination :P

[charla42]

Margo: I underdress 24/7. Bra/panties, Lady jeans, sweater, polo blouses,T-shirt. Ladies loafers. Keep my eye brows thinned an arched. Location an family dictate this level. Like you I will not go past this level. Unless I attend SCC which is in session this week in Atlanta. Love to All

[JustAlex]

I underdress all the time. Panties always, I rarely wear male briefs. I also wear pantyhose and teddies when it's cold. Garter belt and stocking occasionally. I'm not much into bras but I did them too. My wife is OK with that, she buys stuff for me sometimes but I buy for myself most of the time. She's OK about me wearing full female when we're alone, in fact she likes it more than I do.

In public I went as far as wearing female pants with the zipper on the side or on the back. But I did that only to go out and not to places where people could have more time to noticed like in the office or with friends or family. Going to the mall, cinema or walking around, I felt fine doing that.

[larry]

"She's OK about me wearing full female when we're alone, in fact she likes it more than I do." Oh SO lucky..

I underdress all the time. Panties always, I rarely wear male briefs. I also wear pantyhose and teddies when it's cold. Garter belt and stocking occasionally. I'm not much into bras but I did them too. My wife is OK with that, she buys stuff for me sometimes but I buy for myself most of the time. She's OK about me wearing full female when we're alone, in fact she likes it more than I do.

In public I went as far as wearing female pants with the zipper on the side or on the back. But I did that only to go out and not to places where people could have more time to noticed like in the office or with friends or family. Going to the mall, cinema or walking around, I felt fine doing that.

[Sherry Lynn]

Sometimes I wear hose and panties under boy clothes but I don't ever wear a bra unless I need it to hold up my breast forms. I wear ladies pants sometimes too. That's about as far as I underdress but when I do dress and paint up, I do it fully with all accessories. When I go out dressed I want to be noticed and I usually am. Especially when I use the men's room in drag!

[sara.s]

i don't understand underdressing. If you constantly underdress, wouldn't it kill the novelty of wearing something special underneath?

[donna48c]

I underdress every day 24/7 from shoe, socks, jeans, panties, and yes a 40b bra. Need the bra for support and bounce yes there real. Only wear male shirts to hide my bumps while in male mode. My wife also is ok with this and also picks out my outfits.

[Leslie Iz]

When I cannot go head to toe because of privacy or time issues I will always underdress which is quite often. Wearing a bra and or panties under my day to day clothing is a given for me. I really enjoy wearing one piece swimwear as an undergarment sometimes, it makes my figure feel like it should.

[underdresser41]

I am an under-dresser too. My wife has purchased bras and panties for me, sometimes even at no request. I am allowed to dress wherever I think there will not be a problem, she says. But then she asks, "What if we're in a car accident?" I tell her it's nothing they haven't seen before. Welcome, Pam.

My wife is the same way... I think she worries too much, but she does let me underdress (mostly) whenever I want...

[kaela]

My soon to be wife helps me dress. she doesnt want me to do it all the time so. i to under dress. paintes as much as i can and a nighty to bed. i want more but i dont want to push it to fast.

[kathie225]

My wife accepts my underdressing and has purchased panties for me. Her limited acceptance of my dressing came about after a trip we took to the south Pacific a number of years ago. Men wearing skirts were social norms and she didn't feel that appalled at the spectre as she thought she would. At the time she knew of my attraction to women's garments and felt that panties wouldn't be so bad after all. She later bought some for me and have been underdressing every day since.

[Stefanie_in_Mt]

I under desss with panties, whith my new found freedom I don't even own mens shorts anymore

[il.dso]

For years, I was never a big fan of underdressing and didn't really see the point in it.
Recently, however, I have been underdressing much more frequently.
What typically happens is that I am able to fully crossdress for most of the morning.
Then, unfortunately, it's time to get into drab and face the working world.
I realized that there's really no need to take of my panties and pantyhose so I underdress for the rest of the day.
Not quite the ideal situation but the best I can do for now...

[Lace-Is-Great]

I have occassionally under-dressed with panties under my pants in public... especially in leasurely walks through the Shopping Mall or quaint bookstore.

A few time's I've done it because I slept in my colorful pink or flower-patterned cotton panties, and it felt so comfy that I simply slipped on sweats or jogging / gym pants for a brisk morning walk or jog.

Once or twice I did it without thinking, and didn't realize I still had my panties on until I came home from an early morning walk or jog and changed for my morning shower! LOL

[Eve II]

I underdress almost everyday - bra , panties sometimes stockings, slips- I LOVE it ! While my SO
accepts it, I'm not in a sititstion where I can fully dress in total femme. Girls who have read my
post on site, know that my fetish is bras. Therefore it's easier to underdress, but it's getting
harder to hide my natural "girls".

[Robin-in-TX]

Hi, I've started to wear panties in uniform. No one will see them. I keep them in my field gear at home and just slide a pair into my gym bag on my way out, which is earlier than anyone gets up. Then put them on when I change into uniform. I have a private office. Then, I change back at the end of the day, or not, sometimes I wait for her to go to bed, then change the in "Man Cave" at night. I even have the laundry thing worked out. I love the feeling of them.

[xcross23x]

I wear them the sometimes when I sleep but I have never had the courage to wear them in public

[Jenniferpl]

I can relate to what Pamela is saying. The relationship is more important than the clothes. She takes what her wife finds accepting and is able to let her feminine side out. Cross dressing can be a blast with an accepting spouse. My wife buys my panties for me and tells I have to wear what she buys regardless of the color or pattern. I find that underdressing helps quiet my inner voice.

[Dianelee]

I went into my marriage as a cross dresser and while my wife took a few years, now accepts my dressing all the time. This level of acceptance has allowed me to find and wear some extremely comfy lingerie for my everyday life. My wife even stuffs my Christmas stocking (sic) with g-strings, panties stockings and slips.

I could never pass enfemm, so I underdress nearly 100% of the time and now even have been buying lingerie and receiving lingerie from my sister.

My everyday panties are the jockey elance string bikinis http://www.jockey.com/products/Elanc...-Bikini-3-Pack and my everyday bra is the vassarette style 70254 http://hosierystreet.com/system/scri...54&refer=vsrts which is microfiber and a bit of lace that supports what little breasts I have and feels amazing. They barely show under t-shirts and the fabric keeps my nipples stiff all day long. Even though I'm naturally a AA the 38b fits great.

They're also not horribly expensive and google searching coms up anywhere from $9/2 pack to $14/2pack.

I'm also fond of wearing pant liners under my jeans so that they're not so itchy, though in my tropical climate I'm considering moving from the yummy nylon to Cotton instead.

I've just ordered my first set of breast forms and am really looking forward to trying them out. I'm very much a transvestite (by definitions previously mentioned) and find lingerie to be better than Viagra, which is probably why my wife has been so accepting.

[anonymousinmaryland]

That is a beautiful bra in your avatar. From an underdresser. And I'm satisfied with this. Best wishes.

[larissa-laurie]

Underdressing is about all I can do. Panties, pantyhose, girdle and slip under girl slacks or jeans. Plus a sports bra that lays flat. Sometimes I use a ladies polo or tee shirt, and trouser socks and ladies somewhat neutral looking shoes. It is whatever I can safely get away with. I can usually wear pantyhose, girdle and slip in bed, which is great. I just love the luxurious feel of silk, satin and nylon slipping over my body.