Who else besides me overcompensates and often plays the "Stupid Man Card" when more femanine issues and topics are at hand with your SO or family?
In the past when out shopping with the wife for clothes I had to either look completely bored, when I wasn't, or start pulling out hideous clothes for her to try on. I have good taste for both myself and for her but I DARE NOT show that, my god, what would she think.
Around the house I do the MANLY jobs, take out the garbage, fix the cars, mow the yard, things like that but never the laundry or cooking. I don't mind helping with all of those chores but as a man I DARE NOT show that, my god what would she think.
I have loosened up on that over the years so I only still do that some of the times but I still must occassionaly play the Jerk of Clubs.
I plan to come out with her soon and if nothing else I hope to gain release from acting like a moron because I don't want her to see my femanine side and suspect something. I am hoping for at least tolerance from her and hopefully a better relationship as a result.