I am still in the somewhat beginning stages with my wife who tolerates but hasn't totally accepted that I like to wear womens clothing. But she's coming along. She didn't like it at first. The second time I mentioned it, I was much more articulate in my explanation and it made a big difference. But it is still not where I want it to be. I am so not pushy. I never mention it but every now and then she'll buy me stockings and pantyhose. I would like to be able to shave my legs, dress around her occasionally, shop together etc. I know that this may never be possible but yesterday She made a big step in the right direction by asking me to put on a pair of pantyhose while I did something for her.
She said she had a dream about it and said it was really nice.

But I want to know..


How did it go when you first told her about your secret? How long did it take for her to accept it?
What roadblocks did you over come? And what did you do to "help" move it forward?

I know it's a lot to ask but do the best you can.