I only wear ladies and girls clothes, but never go into full girl mode, where I'm either going to pass, or will clearly look like I wish I could. It won't work, arms too big, voice too low. I tend to push it, but I try not to cross any lines I can't return from. I know certain clothes will get a look or two, but I'll wear them anyway. American Eagle jeans have familiar, well-known pocket stitching, but look good on me so I wear them. I'm never around anyone who knows me, and I get an occasional look, but no one is laughing overtly and pointing fingers. I'd happily wear a denim miniskirt on a hot day, just not to go to the store or mow the lawn.
Where is the middle here, where is the point where it is either plausibly acceptable or ignored? I see younger boys in skinny jeans that aren't even pulled up, and ditched the skinny jeans because of that. Even pulled up they couldn't work, it looks wrong to me. But for some odd reason, when I'm wearing a somewhat noticeable pair of girls boot cuts or flared jeans, I get nowhere near the odd looks I see skinny jeans getting from people. They only look good on girls to me. It could be because everyone else feels the boys in skinny jeans just need to pull them up, too. I do.
I want to dress like a girl, but don't want to be called out for having gender issues. I want the little bit of skinny and femme, but not if it gets me questioned or laughed at.
Is there a happy spot? Are there any answers or suggestions?