Thought I am open with my friends, I find myself hiding from family and work. Reason being I absolutely hate my mother's reactions to what I wear (if I wear anything unusual, even a loose belt around the waist, while wearing jeans she acts like I have broken some kind of rule and asks accusingly why I am doing it) and just don't want to deal with it.
I hide it from aviation and those in it, due to once again the irrational reaction some of that community would have. Many would not care really, I mean many certainly have skeletons to hide. How many have I see fly with different "lady friends" when I know damned well they are married? lol.
But if I ever could have a guarantee my life would not be ruined, I would so not hide anymore. It would be so nice.