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    Your ideal man

    Hi,

    I know that some of us girls are attracted to men. I would be interested to hear from those who are what their ideal man would be like.

    When dressed I think about having a tall dark handsome man but also one who is kind, considerate, quietly dominant, and gentle in bed (I do not talk from experience), and romantic. I like to think there is a Mr Right out there for all of us.

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    Claire

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    Tall Dark and handsome is good for me... i like guys that are taller then me (i'm 6') and maybe a little heavier (197lbs), i also like guys that are understanding and encouaging. i am passive to the point of being submissive when it comes to men. So i like a man who is comfortable being in charge and as for sex i want a man who knows what he enjoys and isn't afraid to enjoy himself with me..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starr View Post
    Tall Dark and handsome is good for me... i like guys that are taller then me (i'm 6') and maybe a little heavier (197lbs), i also like guys that are understanding and encouaging. i am passive to the point of being submissive when it comes to men. So i like a man who is comfortable being in charge and as for sex i want a man who knows what he enjoys and isn't afraid to enjoy himself with me..
    Starr,

    I imagine I would also be very submissive with the right man so I agree with you that he should be someone who knows how to enjoy himself with our type of girl.

    xx

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    Hmmm. Height isn't that important as long as he's not way shorter than me. Dark hair is at least mandatory. Eyes would be green, blue, or dark. Overall look would be slender and in good shape. Clean cut. Stylistically unique, or even better gothic. An evolved state of mind is mandatory (no knuckle draggers yelling stereotypical labels). Personality would have to be easy going to deal with me. Submissive or dominant is fine, and if he switches as I do then all the better. Not too dominant or we would clash in a war for the ages. :P Also dwelling on the ways of the past is forbidden. If you open a door for me don't expect me to walk through it. Just don't slam it in my face and you're golden.
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    It has to be about more than sex. If the personal chemistry and mutual interests/sensibilities aren't there, there probably isn't going to be a second date.

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    My ideal man would be dark haired, tall, and good looking. He should have a larger income, so I can be at home all day cleaning the house and doing chores and errands. He would be good in bed, dominant bc I don't mind a little rough play. I would have to agree that there would have to be personal chemistry and he would have to be kind and courteous.

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    I tend to be attracted to fairer skinned men,clean cut type,hair not too important.a shaven head is quite attractive to me.doesnt have to be too gentle in bed either.I'd like him to know where he's going in life and be confident

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    Pretty much he has to be taller than me. Or at least the same height. A sense of humor would help. A nice smile. A good job. And NO fatties need apply.

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    I'd want him to be all the cliches; tall, handsome.. More importantly he would have to be secure in himself and ideally have experience w/ TG girls. I'm talking w/ someone now who embodies those characteristics. Where it will go I don't know but it sure feels right at the moment

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    Well I'd have to say that my ideal man would be my exact twin. Above average in looks, slender, laid back and easy goin, all around nice man!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Claire96c View Post

    When dressed I think about having a tall dark handsome man but also one who is kind, considerate, quietly dominant, and gentle in bed (I do not talk from experience), and romantic. I like to think there is a Mr Right out there for all of us.
    gee it sounds like the kind of guy most GG's here say they want. interesting. no where does it mention girly, frilly, ladylike, wears a short dress and acts like a princess.

    Can I ask a question? When one answers this question do they see themselves as the ideal man? I mean when you aren't dressed and you get that clouded idea that women are meek and submissive?
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    I am attracted to men who are confident in what they do. I do like someone about 6 foot tall, dark hair and blue eyes. He needs to be compassionate, not overbearing, kind and not afraid of what others think of him.

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    This is easy. I'm a sucker for a big strong guy that adores me. ;-)

    I think the man known as "The Rock" is pretty much my ideal. Yum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Badtranny View Post
    This is easy. I'm a sucker for a big strong guy that adores me. ;-)

    I think the man known as "The Rock" is pretty much my ideal. Yum.
    Oh yeah! And Daniel Craig.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Michelle.M View Post
    Oh yeah! And Daniel Craig.
    mmmmm Daniel Craig. ooooh what about Stabler on Law & Order??

    This is a fun game.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Badtranny View Post
    ooooh what about Stabler on Law & Order??

    This is a fun game.
    And it's getting better! Stabler - yeah, he has kind of a Christian Bale thing going on, but with a cool show!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Michelle.M View Post
    Oh yeah! And Daniel Craig.
    Daniel Craig is hot looking and has a great physique, and I could definitely have some nasty (i.e. delicious) daydreams about him! Since this is just fantasy, I suppose that it doesn't really matter, but the Hollywood flaks list him as 5-11, which probably means he's actually about five nine and a half in reality. I wondered about the scenes which he had with Nicole Kidman in The Golden Compass, because she is a legitimately between 5-11 and 6-0 in bare feet.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Badtranny View Post
    Queens or flamers need not apply. That's my territory.
    Misty you never cease to crack me up!

    Well I don't know if he's ideal or not but I went on a date last night. He's quite a bit older than me which is not something I would have foreseen myself being attracted to but he's sweet and actually talks to me rather than just telling me he wants me. That a plus. Hes taller than me which really is a must and I'm 6', He bought me dinner, listened to me talk incessently, held the door, walked me to my car and kissed me. So far so good. By chance he's a CDer which does nothing for me but I don't hold it against him either. If he wanted to transition I'd be kind and supportive but I would probably lose interest as far as a romantic relationship is concerned. I guess what I like about him so far is he seems like he is genuinely into me which kinda turns me on. I'm totally over "hey baby Wana F#%k"....... um no.

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    Michelle, Barbara and April,

    There's a reality type competition show on now called Top Shot and it is literally filled with hot alpha guys. I mean really, any hot masculine guy who wants to be the Top Shot is always welcome in my room. ;-)
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    While not particularly attracted to men there are a lot that are very handsome.

    However I there is one small problem I dont think the ideal man exists
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    Generous, taller than me, easy to talk to, cannot bear the thought of an Erin having to work for a living, wants to put me in a new Grand Prix, has a nice place, Kind of quiet yet not anti-social, and has a fetish for my legs covered in nylon.

    Is this too much to ask?
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    Benicio Del Toro. Andre 3000. Nick Heidfeld.

    In any order.

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    Jack Herer feminized..
    Eyes alight with glowing hair
    all that fancy paints as fair
    she takes her fan and throws it
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    These all sound like personal ads!

    OK, here's mine.

    SWF, D, NS/ND & DDF, 5'9" & slim with curves in the right places, looking for a LTR with a VGL TDH CD who is also NS/ND & DDF. WTR

    (key)
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