I realized today, that all my life I've been following the wrong perspective on, well, everything. People like to describe themselves and others by using labels which define a person by what they do, but that is entirely false; we are not defined by what we do, rather, we define what we do. I am not a crossdresser. I am Bob. I crossdress, I play guitar, and I study psychology, among many other things. Those are things I do, not what or who I am.
That's how the world should think. If you think you ARE something, rather than that you DO something, you define yourself and limit your options. If you fit yourself into a label, you'll let the expectations associated with that label change you. Remember, all you ARE is you, and you can DO whatever you want because "you" doesn't carry any limits or expectations.
That's my random thought for today, sorry I can't express it as eloquently or thoroughly as Anne or Freddy