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    Getting Ma'am'd

    I was going to post this in the TS section, but I feel that all mtf members of the trans-umbrella can relate to this and may also wish to share their stories.

    Doesn't it feel great to be ma'am'd? I've been getting ma'am'd in boymode recently starting a few weeks ago, which is super awesome. Earlier today I was out getting some food, and the girl at the register asked "What can I get for you ma'am?" Then a second later she realized and was like "I mean SIR! soorrryyy." I told her that it was okay but deep down, I felt soo happy haha.

    Yeah, my story wasn't that good lol, but I am really happy because it confirmed to me that I am making progress, since she corrected herself to say "sir" after. Before, I thought that people were probably actually just saying "man" to me lol, even though they were calling other people "sir" or "ma'am". I don't know, I guess I just have a hard time believing that I'm actually making progress.

    So, anyone have any stories where they unexpectedly get ma'am'd?
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    It used to happen a lot when I used to work in Retail. I've grown my hair out (about 4 inches from my buttocks) twice now, and with my thin frame coupled with a padded panty, in drab I still looked very femme from behind. So if I was stocking a shelf or something, at least 3-4 times a day someone would come up and ask, "Excuse me miss, do you work here?" and I'd reply with a chuckle in my tenor voice, to which would occasionally result in a "Miss..ter, I said Mister...Mr, do you work here?"

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    Hahaha I bet you turned a lot of people's worlds upside down when you responded with the deep voice!
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    I get Ma'amed about once a week. I love it!
    Comfortable in my own skin.

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    I love being called ma-am! My best experiance was at a Wal-mart when a lady was coming out of the restroom held the door open for me! I thanked her and she said you are welcome ma-am!
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    I do enjoy being ma'am'd (usually happens in stores or restaurants)

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    Since letting my hair grow longer I have been ma'am'd a-lot in boy mode, I just love it.

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    Thumbs up Cat, that's just a part of what this CDing thing all about, isn't it?

    Quote Originally Posted by CatAttack;2567956 (#1)
    Doesn't it feel great to be ma'am'd? So, anyone have any stories where they unexpectedly get ma'am'd?
    Originally Posted by joan47 Do you think you might look a little effeminate in male mode with any feminine changes you have made or clothes you wear?
    Quick answer, "Not quite, Joan, but proudly getting there!" However, one lady at Walmart, as we (my SO and I) departed the store - with my 2 new women's short-shorts in hand that I had just bought for the onset of summer - even stopped us and gushed all over us as such a "Lovely Couple." Surprisingly, being 100% feminine, for almost 6 hours, sans makeup and wig, not one male even gave me a sideways glance today, that I was remotely aware of? (http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...post2466979One #35)

    BTW I had one other occurence happen to me like yours, Cat, and it was from a waiter standing over my right shoulder taking my SO and my orders when he slipped and absent-mindely said something like, "and, what's for you ma'am?" I was en femme sans wig and makeup then, too! OMG I loved it.

    Cat, that's what this CDing thing all about, isn't it? Being positively recognized and accepted for what we are attempting to become by gadding about in costumes of the opposite sex?

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    I get Ma'am, ladied a lot. Yes, I have long hair, but the funniest one was yesterday - out with the wife, I'm in Motorcycle boots, pants, black shirt, vest (not leather MC vest, but a heated vest), baseball cap, hair tied back. We walk in the restaurant, we're greeted with "Hello ladies! Two for lunch?" We laughed. I mean, I can't GET any more butch!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Misti View Post
    Cat, that's what this CDing thing all about, isn't it? Being positively recognized and accepted for what we are attempting to become by gadding about in costumes of the opposite sex?
    Haha yeah, I agree with this except for the costumes part. I don't feel like it is a costume, because a costume would imply that it is false/fake, like an illusion.
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