Over the last couple of nights I've had the opportunity to do some deep thinking thanks to my son having dodgy sleep!
Something I was thinking about the other day was the apparent trend for transgender MTF to more commonly live full time as women when retired than before.
I think there are a number of factors contributing to this, most notably the fact that despite antidiscrimination laws and gender policies in large organisations, it is still very difficult for a transgender person to work as anything other than their birth sex. I believe that for family reasons it is difficult for a transgender person to present as their chosen or desired gender at any particular point particularly when they have children at home.
I wonder if another reason may be a lack of any social role for men after retirement. Within our society a retired man is often regarded as at best self concerned and at worst a liability. I'm sure we have all heard the comment from friends or relatives "Dave can't retire, he would drive his wife mad."! The success of the "mens shed" movement in Australia I think is another symptom of this social isolation of retired men (NB I think mens sheds are great and are not only a symptom but also a treatment for the problem). Is an increase in transgender feelings and activities due not only to opportunity but also to a need to belong and feel wanted. Is it easier for a retired women to have social contacts and also family commitments or involvement (it is still rare to ask for "grandpa" to mind the kids) and is it a wanting to be needed that may drive a feeling of wanting to take on more feminine characteristics?
Of course I could just be talking complete and utter nonsense!
Adina