here's something else i thought of too. most of us dress very well and maybe too good. we dress to look sexy and even though we could get buy wearing just the basics, a lot of us wear lace panties and bras, stockings, garter belts or thigh highs. my SO tells me women never wear hose in the summer or in general. she hasn't worn hose or a skirt or a dress for that matter in years.
i almost always wear hose with a skirt or a dress. a lot of times i wear a garter belt. i like lace panties and bras and half slips, camisoles , and full slips. of course being older and growing up in the times when women wear garter belts i think has something to do with it. but then again in think that seeing the tops of your nylons attached to garters is very sexy. one of the things i love about driving my car while i am dressed is sometimes to be able to look down and see this.
i try to be as sexy as i can be when i dress. when i fell sexy, i feel feminine. when i feel feminine, it inspires my confidence to venture out into the world as Cassandra.