Lea, I made that leap. from Vest-ite to dressing, as I've said before, in my day the word Transvestite, was not in the dictionary, at least not the old one I had. So I looked up the word Trans -to cross over, as in trans Atlantic, then I looked up vestite, found nothing, so I looked up vest, and all of it's meanings, Vest -an article of clothing. I remembered from high school, ite showed something was doing something, so cross an article of clothing, Wow cross dress, that's what you call what I had been doing all my life. I'm a Transvestite, it has a name, it's not just me. I've always had a fond feeling for the word myself. It's funny, our sisters across the pond don't seem to have a problem with the word, not even the ones that are happily married, and don't seem to be gay (not that theres anything wrong with it). I considered myself to be a transvestite, way before I ever heard anyone actually use the term cross dresser. As far as sex goes, I've found it's about the same drive no matter how I'm dressed, more about how long since sex.
Tina B.