I've been seeing alot of posts about SO's, supportive or otherwise and it brings to mind a missed opportunity for me. 10 years ago when I was 18 my girlfriend at the time was everything I wanted. She was beautiful, funny and smart enough to hold a decent and intelligent conversation with me. She was also a gamer which was a massive bonus, lol.
One night she suggested that I wear her underwear during an, er, intimate moment. Despite the fact that all i wanted to do was jump at the chance, my suspicious side immediately conjured an image of Admiral Ackbar shouting "It's a trap!" and so I refused. We lasted about a year and during that time I got certain hitns from her that she'd like to do that and more in regards to dressing. However I was still trying to sort out what being a CD meant for myself and I couldn't make that leap.
I sometimes look back at that with huge regret because if I'd had the courage to say yes I might still be with her and having the time of my life with a fuly supportive and encouraging SO.
Has anyone else had something similar or any missed opportunities that they regret?
Stacey.