I think you have to do what you have to do. A second chance with your wife is the risk of throwing out some clothes.
I think you have to do what you have to do. A second chance with your wife is the risk of throwing out some clothes.
Good luck on your relationship, but remember this thing doesn't go away.
I highly suggest restarting your relationship with that in the open, since you're just delaying the inevitable, if she can't handle it.
Only you can decide what is best or you and you should do as you think best. What I read on this thread is not so much the sense of loss of physical possessions, but a regret at denial of your own true self. I have done that myself, and regret it to this day. You may be able to change and adapt and I wish you well. I only wish I could do the same, but cannot.
Christine