since when was life fair for everyone

[danielle.cd]

ok first off i had a thread deleted, yes it was about beauty and pix of dresses and gowns and sort of a contest, to wich i didnt know was in the rules that u cant have those . wich is fine , the grip comes when the reason for the rule is because others here dont have the same level of dress and looks as others and it wouldnt be fair to those people . well thats what really urks me. cause there are plenty and i mean plenty of genetic girls out there that would just love to be miss america but sadly enough this world isnt fair and u have to work with what u got. or get the stuff to look the way u want to, plus you dont enter if u arnt confident in your self right. there is a choice when it comes to those things. if u enter u know u may loose or win it not always about how hard u try, if that was the case i would be a ceo someware by now,
i know this rule isnt going to change and its not my intent to change it , but if you going to give someone a reason why something isnt alowed in here dont tell them it about being fair to everyone life is not fair, its not.

[jennCD]

No such thing as fairness. We simply made it up a long time ago to make some of us feel better.
I prefer to think of things in terms of "It is what it is"... ends up being less stressful that way.


jenn

[Kaitlyn Michele]

Time to start your own forum I guess...

[danielle.cd]

Time to start your own forum I guess...

i like this forum but man alot of stuff seem so regulated, not to bash the mods but really shouldnt a crossdressers forum be regulated buy the cd not ggs,

[Tina B.]

I don't know, I kind of like the way this place is run, that's why I'm still here after all these years. And I too have had treads deleted, for what I thought was a weak reason, but hey, that's the price of admission.
Tina B.

[danielle.cd]

I don't know, I kind of like the way this place is run, that's why I'm still here after all these years. And I too have had treads deleted, for what I thought was a weak reason, but hey, that's the price of admission.
Tina B.

i know but theres alway that part of me that says , really come on now be a grown up ya know, and give me a good reason , i wear big girl panties i can handle the truth lol

[LilSissyStevie]

Here's an idea for a contest: Lets make bets on how many posts this thread last for. I don't think it will make it to ten.

[ReineD]

i like this forum but man alot of stuff seem so regulated, not to bash the mods but really shouldnt a crossdressers forum be regulated buy the cd not ggs,

I deleted your thread and it makes absolutely no difference whether I'm a GG or not. Any other mod here would have done the same.

I had half a mind to delete this one too, since you are violating the rule which states that if you disagree with a moderating action, you should address it by PM directly with the mod in question or an Admin:

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...breaking_rules

I'm choosing to leave your thread up, however, since it doesn't hurt to remind everyone that this is a support forum, not a beauty or a popularity contest. As explained to you in your edit note, not everyone has the same ability to pass or blend, nor does everyone have the advantage of youth. You have no idea how hurtful it is for some of our members who do post pics in the Gallery and who don't get more than a few comments compared to the others, let alone being judged for not being as pretty or fashionable as someone else. The ability to pass as a female is a highly sensitive and emotional issue for many people here and you would do well to consider this.

To persist in disregarding other people's feelings after it was explained to you is the height of self-absorbtion or arrogance in my opinion.

If you still disagree with my position, please contact an Admin.

Thread closed.

[Tamara Croft]

i like this forum but man alot of stuff seem so regulated, not to bash the mods but really shouldnt a crossdressers forum be regulated buy the cd not ggs,

No this board shouldn't be regulated by CD's, it was regulated once by CD's and wasn't fit to show your mother, it was full of porn, foul language, flame wars etc etc... now it's run by a mixture of people and a TS and GG are admins, if that's not ok by you, feel free to leave, but don't come here having a childish tantrum about the way this board is run and how life isn't fair, on this board, things ARE fair.... and that's that!!

And do feel free to contact me, however, you might not like what I have to say.