I just felt the need to share. This weekend I was visiting my futur in-laws. My (supportive) gf went shopping with her mom, so Her brother in law and I where helping farm. In the truck with her dad and brother in law.. We passes by a house that happened to belong to a TG. So began the "he-she" and "it"comments. I felt horrible and was on the verge of crying, but managed to fake a smile on my face with the occasional chuckle. Any coming out of any extent or attempts to defend the neighbor would have been worthless. I haven't felt this horrible about having to remain quiet in a long time. They had no idea that they where making fun of me at the same time they where making fun of this individual.