Stacey,
Trust me when I say purging never works. I purged all my stuff on two occasions and here I sit dressed. My wonderful wife accepts my dressing and I dress all the time while home no outside dressing which is fine with me. Now back to what I was saying it's just gonna eat at you not having your girlie stuff until you break down and buy more. I've got some major regrets for doing it I tossed some really great skirts and tops I can't seem to find anything like them now.
So think hard before you do this as everone has said it won't change your wifes oppinion at all.