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    Junior Member grace52's Avatar
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    How long did you visit before joining

    Just wondering if any of you sit on the side before joining. I did for years, but all of you gave me the courage and made me feel not alone. thank you!!!

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    I joined immediately once I looked things over to see that it was something that I felt was a good resource, took maybe a half hour of looking over various threads.

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    What is normal anyway? Rianna Humble's Avatar
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    I read quite a few posts for about 3 to 5 days then decided that this was somewhere I could find support to become the real me - even though I could not immediately admit to myself what that meant in reality.
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    Posted an introductory message as soon as I was approved on the site. Of course, I put it in the wrong area! I then browsed and knew I had found the right place for me to be, as everyone was very friendly and supportive.

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    I looked around for a hour or so then singer up. I all ways knew I was one whom would go out dressed and this site and Second Life helped me to go out. And I thank all our men and women here for that. Thank you all.
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    I stumbled onto this site by accident. I had been on some other sites for a while but I don't like them because a lot of the stuff is all sexual explicit material and I'm not looking for that. I was on this site for about 20 mins and then signed up. I'm so glad that I found it and I love all the support I get from everybody!

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    naughty nurse Billie Jean's Avatar
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    I looked around about a week before signing up. This is my favorite site cause everybody is so friendly and helpful. Billie Jean

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    Member Katelyn B's Avatar
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    I'm quite shy, and was worried about butting in to an established community, but every post I read seemed so warm, friendly, and helpful, that after a week of lurking and reading I decided to join, still took me another two days to get the courage to post a "hello" message.

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    I signed up the first day I saw the sight. My GF actually found the site and refered me to it and as soon as I read the first few posts I was hooked!

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    Silver Member Jilmac's Avatar
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    After googling crossdressers in 2007 and coming up with this forum, I hung around for about a week reading as many threads as I could, reading FAQ, and then decided to join. I've been a member ever since.
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    Couple minutes. Actually Emily Ann found it first. After she got kicked off the CD Secret Garden.. And I quit in protest. She messaged me and I popped in and joined.
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    I joined after a couple of days.

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    Member Stephanie Michelle's Avatar
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    It took me a week before I joined. Not sure why I waited so long.

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    R u kidding? After dressing in a vacuum for 10 years, I'd thot I'd died and gone to heaven when Google led me to this site!

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    I was surfing CD sites back in 2007 and not finding much that I cared for. I was going to call it a night and stopped one last time here. Well I got caught up reading and had to log off the computer, but the very next day I came here and registered. I find it a great way of learning and sharing and supporting one another.
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    Someone recommended this site to me. So, I signed up immediately and have never regretted it.

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    I joined the first day of finding the website after reading through some of the forums. What a wonderful place to be yourself with no cliques, no put-downs and non-judgemental in ways so common to most every other site . . . .. The people here seemed informed, open and supportive. That alone was worth joining for.

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    Silver Member Debra Russell's Avatar
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    After being on another forum for a while and it being very nice but I wanted more I found this site while googleing - read a few time and joined (two or three days) - very happy I found it, thank you all................Debra

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    Making a life for Tina! suchacutie's Avatar
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    About 20 seconds. I had first dressed that morning! The door opened and I walked through (ran?).

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    I took a couple of weeks reading everything I could as I was struggling with cding. I then decided it was time to jump in and participate because of the great people here.
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    It took me a year ro so befor I joined and about 4 years before my first post.

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    Member Jennifer529's Avatar
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    I was browsing a year or so ago,then decided to jump in with both feet!
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    I had been struggling with being a cd and googled crossdresser. Found this site and read some threads and decided this site has the resources and people most alined with me.

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