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    How often do you THINK about dressing?

    How often do you think about dressing, your own innate femininity, or TG/CD issues? Every day? Every week? Every couple of weeks? A couple of times a month? Please do not confuse the question with how often you actually dress. Rather, I am curious as to how often members think about such things.

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    Gold Member Cynthia Anne's Avatar
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    Anne, I must say 24/7! Because I even dream about dressing! Hugs!
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    Every day, and much of the day but i do get distracted by work sometimes. I couldn't tell you how many times a day I have Some thought of my femininity but its a lot.

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    Whenever i am in drab

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    Every day for me too. Today I had to go to an all guy function (bachelor party for my son). Taking my panties off was difficult but I couldn't chance somebody seeing a waistband or more if I bent over.
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    Daily if not more often. Sometimes it just flashes in my mind while working and I will think to myself "I wish I was dressed"

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    Every waking moment when not dressed and always in my dreams. The dreams are especially when I wear my mens silk pajamas.

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    I'm very new to this, so I think about it a lot. Multiple times a day and occasionally it keeps me from focusing at work. Once I find my place, perhaps it will lessen.

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    Depends on what I'm doing. If I'm focused on work or a project, not at all, BEFORE I decided to take up neck down hair removal, and 24/7 panty wearing. Now, I think of it about two to three times an hour. And almost always when I'm doing nothing important.

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    Every 5.7 seconds. Roughly.
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    Its on my mind quite a bit. Definatley every couple hours.

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    I don't think, I ever stop thinking about dressing.

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    It feels like 24/7. Actually depends on what I am doing. Bottome line is I spend way too much time thinking about it.

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    Several times a day.....sometimes several times an hour or minute.....=]

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    I have always been out of sync with the world and my body but I did not know why until I started dressing enfemme and than everything clicked and fell into place. Crossdressing for me is a salve that helps me manage the fracture in my mind. Even though temporary it works like a form of novocaine for the brain so in a sense I always think about crossdressing because I always live with this fracture. A broken bone that never heals so I use my imagination to cope with a reality I cannot change.

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    Constantly. My life would of been much better if I didn't focus most of my attention on my CDing/TSism.

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    Every day. Recently it's been more frequent, but a few weeks ago, I wasn't thinking about it that much. It ebbs and flows, I suppose.

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    All the time actually. When I walk through a store and see something I like, I wonder how it would look on me. Whether its a display, or something on the rack, maybe just an advertisement. Maybe not all the time but a lot.

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    Pretty much all the time lately, now that I'm coming to terms with just what my issues are. Before that it was at least once a week. It's a welcome change, especially because I'm acting on it without hesitation anymore.

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    So frequently that it feels like it's 24/7. When I'm concentrating on other tasks or work, I am momentarily distracted from it. But, otherwise, it continually shades my thoughts.
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    most of the day but not in my dreams i wonder why?.........................................di

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    I do not spend any "philosophical" time on CD when I am off this forum/off the internet. Unless some curious thought pops into my mind...which is typically more a generalized curiosity non-specific to CD.

    Maybe because I live alone and do not experience any frustration or anxiety related to my CD interests. I do dress daily at home, which is also my office (self-employed). But my CD behavior is more related to opportunity, rather than any compelling desire or self-identity issues popping into my head. When I am not dressed, I do not "ponder" CD issues, "miss it" or ruminate about it in any fashion.

    The urge strikes me and if it is convenient, I do it. If not, I don't. I am happy with either circumstance.

    CDing is really a pretty uncomplicated issue with me.

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    The only time I don't think about it is when I'm en femme.

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    I'm not convinced I think about it 24/7, but I wearing something femme 24/7 and I am conscious of it 24/7. Being retired now and having a totally accepting s/o allows me the freedom to be me. Most of the time I am wearing at least my forms and matching bra and panties, and usually a pair of leggings or something so my thoughts are not 'about' dressing, but rather doing some adjustments whether it's bra straps or whatever, so I am constantly reminded of being dressed en femme in some way. We often discuss makeup, polish, hair styles, etc. so that keeps me in the zone as well.

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