I am happiest in the "mainstream"places..restaurants,bars,clubs,etc . We had a new nightclub open recently by a couple of TG performers.They solicited the TG business by personally inviting us to their club. Well,the drag show is funny,but the place is already attracting a huge Bear population as well as younger groups of like minded guys. My point is,when a place becomes overridden by the gay male nightlife,it is no longer as fun for TGs as it could be.This isn't my first time observing this. I wonder if the out and about girls also see this in their parts of the country. This is why I feel a whole lot better being the only TG in a mainstream place.Has anyone else noticed these growing Bear caves?