Firstly My wife knows I like to wear underwear and stockings.but apart from that I am still very much in the cosset . She knows I Am still hiding something but lets it lie . But sometimes She teases me about my nylons and talks to me as if she is fishing for more info, what i can't *work out is , is it for fun or is she trying to get me to admit more . I don't lie as today she asked me if i had thrown my panties *out. And i said "which ones.And no I has not and will not !! *" She has said that when she first found out it was the worlds worst problem but now she is ok,ish about it .*
I just want to tell her about the real me , but I am very frightened about the reaction !!!! *she has some idea that my problems is some kind of sexual fetish and it's not. Does anyone have any advice or experience of this and if so how do you tell your wife that it is just me and the clothing and no more *in a truthful *way that she believes it . I feel sometomes she is trying to give me the chance to speak but I just freeze up and get no further .
Would be interested to hear if anyone else has had it like this and what did you do to solve the problem ,