I was out shopping with my wife the other day. She knows I crossdress and is accepting. when I first broached the subject several years ago she took it very well and I was the one in floods of tears and shaking. Since then I have bought a few items of clothing such as sweaters and such like. My wife seems very happy for me to express this side of me. Recently I have wanted to take this further and told my wife of boots, tights and a denim skirt I have and would like to wear them around the house in the evening.She was initially reluctant, but then said yes and appears totally fine with it. Her one condition is that I don't let the kids see me. (she's worried that the kids will tell their friends at school).
Anyway... back to the story, we were shopping and my wife came up to me and showed me this fur scarf. She said, "doesn't it feel so soft and beautiful?". Well of course it did, but I was reticent to say so and just nodded. She asked if she should buy it. I said yes, it would look nice on her. She replied "no, I mean for you".
I was taken aback and stammered "no! I probably wouldn't wear it".
So to the title of my post. My wife is amazing, fantastic, brilliant and every other superlative I could heap upon her. She wants to make me happy and I turn it down?????????? I knew she would want me to wear it generally out and about, which was amazing. (all my dreams come true). But faced with my dream and my dream coming true I panicked and went all male and gruff and didn't really want to know.
Afterwards I ended up in a foul mood, because I had been so stupid.
Does anyone else feel like this. My big problem with cross dressing is me.... The person who judges me most is me... Why do I do this to myself. I feel so nervous dressing in with her there. I feel like i'm being stupid, letting her down and so on. I've told her all this and she said not to be stupid, but still I cut myself up. The big problem is me. Although my wife accepts me for who i am and how I dress I still really struggle to dress in front of her.
Any comments would be appreciated. I realise I'm in a lucky situation and it's my block that is causing the problem