Great read! For me it's been almost a year since I first donned a single piece of fem clothing at the ripe age of 52. I've always been fascinated with women's fashion and makeup but really never gave it any thought what so ever. About this time last year something clicked and I started to search the web but not really knowing what I was looking for. After finding this site and doing numerous searches on how to dress and applying makeup and then going out and purchasing said items, I thought I'd better tell the wife. Of course lots of questions. After a lot of thought after our discussions, I think the trigger that set everything into motion was my wife's stroke 6 years ago. Indeed there probably was something there and I wish I would have found this inner self earlier in life.