Ok, am I the only one that can ask the obvious before this kid puts her/him self in potential harms way? Alexis, what does your Gender Therapist say about you pursuing active duty? Reading your posts here, you seem to have already made up your mind that you are going to do this while you are going to pursue crossdressing in your spare time at home, and when and where you can you will use the internet to check in on TG websites to keep up on the community and your friends. You also seem to have all the answers for yourself, as you have posted a comeback to every single person here that has posted anything that advises you against this. So here...I will refer back to my previous question, and ad to it ARE YOU INSANE?????
You really need to seek a professional 3rd party. It's clear to me here, just through reading your posts, that your ability to keep this a secret will not be very well put. Let me fill you in on something here. I live full time, and every day I come across someone I know out of the corner of my eye. In the back of my head every where I go is, when will someone decide to take their bad day out on me? Here is another reality. Although a majority of military members are good loving people that are just trying to do there duty, there is a faction represented by the same percentage as civilian population that are not. In the military these types of people have a on documented license to act out their bigotries. I think we could all agree there is a "type" that is drawn to military or law enforcement that are inclined to not be very trans friendly. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE read the TDOR list from last year. When people are outed, people die. Some people are outed despite taking extreme measures not to be.
Your a kid...put your real thinking cap on here. Get a third party therapist involved, and really do a thorough self evaluation before you make a commitment that could end up damaging you for life.
