One thing I love about this community is that for the most part, we seem to stick together. Maybe it's survival instincts (since the rest of the world is against us), and groups tend to bind together when necessary, or perhaps for other various reasons. But regardless of the reason(s), I have found, in my short time, that we are very supportive of one another. Am I wrong?
The real question I am asking is if you guys think there is some level of competition between us? Whether it's healthy competition or more intense. For example, do you individually compare yourself (passable looks) to others? Or see other members comparing themselves to others? When I say this, I realize that it's natural and kind of unavoidable to not compare to some degree, but there is a line that separates a healthy comparison to that of which typically is followed by jealousy and envy.
Men and women in general both do this, usually about completely different things. With guys, it's typically whose car is better, or who has the biggest "whatever." and since this is a crossdressing site, I'll stick to one of the things that some women compete in, and that's clothes/looks in general...
Which leads to my last question, as MtF CDers do alot of us get caught up in what has generally been a female quarrel, or are we still too masculine to care enough about that drama? (this question is not directed at TS's, since they identify as female, and no disrespect is aimed at GGs here at all).
Hope this makes sense..