Are CDs ok with men acting chivalrous and treating them like ladies?

[Brynn_A]

Yes..yes...and yesss

[Rachel Morley]

I've had this kinda thing happen a few times. I couple of times I specifically remember was when a youngish guy held the door open for me and my wife when we were entering a restaurant, he looked at us, smiled, and said "after you ladies" (I have no idea if he read me or not .... presumably not). Another time when we were leaving a restaurant the waiter/coat clerk guy helped me by holding my coat open as I slipped into it.

I must admit I do find times like this quite nice, even a little bit (dare I say) thrilling .. so that's the long answer of "yes" to your question.

[NoraTV]

I love it even more when he treats me like a woman.

[Leeiah]

Yes this is always nice when it happens.

[Chickhe]

Well, it sure beats the usual person in front lets the door swing in my face and race for first spot in line.

[Shelly Preston]

It's nice to know there are gentlemen left in the world who are courteous.
The thing is most are not doing it for anything other than to be polite. Ok occasionally I have known some who will do it to get a better look at a pretty lady.

When it happens to me I just enjoy the moment smile and say thank you

[Sophiewouldbenice]

Sure would be nice

[Foxglove]

I'd probably challenge the guy to an arm-wrestle. The loser buys the dinner.

Second thought: I don't think I'd mind a bit of chivalry as long as he doesn't call me "sweet thang".

[kristinacd55]

I would absolutely enjoy it......it is thrilling!

[Claire Cook]

Yes, Yes, eh...whatever and absolutely

First, holding the door is always a courtesy no matter what gender you do it for (and on the flip side saying "thank you" is a courtesy for the person passing through the door). Next, yes, a man carrying my bags is a sweet gesture. Just like holding my chair, picking up something I drop. you can call me whatever you like I have heard it all before. Sir and Ma'am is polite but not required for me And Honey, compliments are ALWAYS welcome. That is why I take so much time getting ready.

Lori has said it all for me (yet again, I think). I'll never forget the first time it happened to me. I was staying in the University of Georgia's Graduate Center and decided to dress for breakfast after several days of conferences. This gentleman with a charming Georgia accent (and, I have to admit, captivating gray eyes) said "Good Morning ma'am" and held the door for me. I crossed some sort of threshhold in my own self-acceptance that day.

[Elana]

I feel a certain warmth when a man treats me like a woman. Makes me feel more special and fem

[Acastina]

Are you kidding? Yes, yes YES! Affirmation.

[Josephine]

I think it would be wonderful! What is not to like about it?

[Sallee]

I would agree thrilling is a could description. I love the chivalry from men when I am out dressed.

[nicoletta_cd]

I think that is awesome to be treated that way. Makes me feel even more like the girl I am presenting to be if someone treats me how I see GGs be treated.

[Pythos]

Nope...I like to switch off with my GF actually. Some days I have her treat me in a "chivalrous" manner, other times I take that role. What is fun is when I am in fem/androgynous mode when I do it. LOL.

But I prefer that men do not treat me like they are on a date with me. No thank you. I will take care of myself. Just be polite to me, and respect me, that is all I require.