Denise, All I can say is wow, you have a spouse that is trying to communicate with you and you are so wrapped up in your trip ypu dont 'hear' what she is saying. You avoided the 'penis' question like a pro, yes she may she may drink, but you glibly say 'we all have our vices' and you are shamed when she gets 'loopy' can you imaging how she feels when YOU go out in public ? I've read your previous posts and it sounds like you wheedled the photo session and now somehow implied she is responsible for getting the whole thing started because of one holloween ?
If you want to save your marriage, I would reccomend some serious marriage counseling. When you say your spouse needs you more then you need her, thats just crule. Sometimes in marrige we DO have to put up with things. Its thinking like this that make me understand why familys fall apart. The way you talk about Denise, Denise,Denise it makes one wonder who you are married to ? You are at the abyss, I just don't think you know how close. The mere thought that your spouse says she did not want to seen Denise, and you practicly force your spouse from your room, by insisting in changing back at your room. I would not be surprised if your spouse is not at the bar drinking wonder if it's safe to go 'home'