Marlena...My daughter just entered her 50s, and my son is two years behind. My son (and his family) do not suspect...but my daughter once found my freshly washed lingerie in the dryer...and asked me if I dressed (replied that one of my friends had spilled stuff all over herself when visiting me, and I had lent her some clothing...was washing hers and will send it back)...But I will not let either of them officially know...