I used to have lots of libido--for about six months before and six months after my marriage. Then it got mislaid somewhere, maybe with the rest of the junk in the garage. I'd say I'd probably look for it again if I found a suitable partner. But I don't think there's a suitable partner for me on this planet. I can't seem to find one anyway.
Annabelle, there is someone for you somewhere. You just have to keep looking and kiss a lot of frogs.
Very strong regardless of how I dress, always solo because my marriage is on the rocks, so to speak.
Thanks, Josee. And you're right: French women are gorgeous!Originally Posted by josee
Reine, just because some people get aroused about crossdressing and/or certain articles of feminine clothing doesn't mean that they have no sense of decency and commitment to following the rules of the forum and need such a warning any more than others' sexual activities driven differently. We don't need to read about the details of anyone's sexual activities. You've always given an even-handed treatment of those cd's who are fetish-driven, so your post seems a bit uncharacteristic.I don't think the younger, fetish oriented CDers have found this thread yet. When you do, please keep it from being explicit.
Sherry definitely fires my libido!
As a 60+ single man with a teen around, I don't have or desire the kind of action I got as single man in his 30/40's. I think that my libido is fine for my age.It's my physical performance that's not so hot!
However, speaking of solitary sex only, there's a HUGE DIFFERENCE whether it's me as a man, or Sherry!
Having sex just like a female would takes me quite a bit longer but the orgasms r mind bending by comparison!
PS: Shana, remember, it's NOT the size of the dog in a fite that's important, it's the size of the fite in the dog! The same is tru for sex! I've been with a lady in her 60's that was still a tiger. And, remember some their 20/30's that were pussycats! U r who u r!
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U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Lets see, how do we stay tasteful here
I'm in a committed "active" heterosexual relationship with my wife, and the discovery of Tina has not changed that at all.
Was that tasteful?
In male mode it's gone, in girl mode it exist but barely, I do not really miss it all although the misses feels quite differently about this as I keep noticing Viagra advertisments showing up everywhere.
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My libido is just fine. Now I am in my 40's so its not quite what it was in my 20's but its still alive and well. Most of the time I will play more of the typical male role in the bedroon but every once in a while a little more submissive. I have been married for almost 10 years.
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That's true and I apologize.
I shouldn't have said, "younger, fetish oriented". Don't know what I was thinking. I should have said, "Members with stronger libido". (no pun intended)
... and everyone is doing a great job keeping it tame, thank you!
Reine
"......are you more driven to have sex (solo, with a partner or otherwise) as a woman or a man?"
Yes. I mean, no matter what I am I so love sex. God! But only with girls or gurls, not males. Much more sensual and enjoyable when gurl-girl or gurl-gurl than guy-girl ever was. But...if I could Only find the right Girl, this gurl would dis.a..s...s....e.....m......b.......l..........e. Poof! As if I never was. And I am good with that.
I think most of us knew that's what u meant, Reine! Lol!That's true and I apologize.
I shouldn't have said, "younger, fetish oriented". Don't know what I was thinking. I should have said, "Members with stronger libido". (no pun intended)
... and everyone is doing a great job keeping it tame, thank you!
Annaliese, it may be helpful to remember these simple definitions:
Females r usually called, "females", women, or GGs.
Crossdressing males r usually called, CDs, TGs, or TSs.
Using the terms, "girls", or, "gurls", MAY be confusing to newbies or the simple minded here. Like ME! So, u r a girl, or gurl, who likes girls, or gurls!? Thank goodness u don't like guys, too! My poor head mite pop!
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U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
Here I go, the odd ball again, I'm 50, and mine has only gotten stronger, on average I have strong desires 3 times a day, as for being masculine or feminine when I have my desires, half the time one, half the time the other...
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Thank you Sherry. I'm always messed up on what's the right words to use. That helps! And nope, no guys! But Oh noooo...please honey, don't pop ur poor head over lil 'ol me!LOL...
For me, dressing is very much a sexual thing. I am turned on even when thinking of putting on women's clothes.
Since I'm still a completely closeted cross-dresser, I haven't experienced any acts of intimacy while dressed as a woman, though I don't think I would act different than if I were in drab, since my male parts are still there, and I'm sexually attracted to women only. Overall I would just be dressed differently, but it wouldn't change my sexual experience, it would just add a new source of stimulation, I suppose.
I guess the closest I've gone is being together with my girlfriend while my toenails are painted, but then again, the whole toenail idea was originally my girlfriend's.
Is anyone the opposite like me?
Where I would rather not have the physical response or like to voluntarily suppress it?
Dressing has always had a component of sexual thrill for me, except at an early age obviously. That component is by far not my only reason for dressing, however. That being said, since coming out to my SO things have definitely become much more interesting for both of us! I have yet to experience being the 'woman' in this respect, but that will be changing soon. At the moment we both very much enjoy our experience being together with me being dressed...
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Do you mean that you wish that you being dressed did not automatically elicit a sexual response (erection)?
If so, yes, my SO has thought along those lines sometimes. (We talk a lot about what we are thinking). Usually we enjoy the response, but it can be bad for when we are going out on the town. We usually try to take care of things before going out, but you never know what might come up. Hose with a control top built in seems to help, but I know that walking around like that can be a good reminder that you aren't exactly the woman that you are portray. I think it can get to him sometimes...
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That's exactly it.
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I just think an exhasperated "Really?" when it happens.
I'm confused, 3W? Haven't u heard of "tucking"? Then, it matters NOT to others if u get excited, because they NEVER KNOW! I tuck virtually every time I dress! I notice arousal and it's usually appreciated, but NEVER an issue!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
I need to try again and give it more practice, if it does prevent erections then I'll have to do it way more often.
I find that after twenty two years of marriage, mine is always inversely proportional to my wife's.
My SO didn't have much luck with the taping tuck method that he found on this forum. He recruited my help and I was really useless lol....
But, control top hose and panties that are designed to "hold women in" are good...my SO just tucks it between his legs and wears these things and we haven't had a problem. We like to be lesbians on the dance floor and things get pretty wild, but we haven't had any "slip ups."
It can be frustrating though, I understand. I'd try the taping method on this forum...it's a whole thread on tucking. If it doesn't work, try the control top hose and strong undies. Added bonuses of looking 10 pounds thinner too lol
"Today a young man [...] realized that all matter is merely energy condensed to a slow vibration...that we are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively...there is no such thing as death, life is only a dream, and we are the imagination of ourselves. Here's Tom with the Weather.”-Bill Hicks
“What freedom men and women could have, were they not constantly tricked and trapped and enslaved and tortured by their sexuality! The only drawback in that freedom is that without it one would not be a human. One would be a monster.” East of Eden by Steinbeck
Heaven forbid, 3W! If tucking did THAT, I'd never do it! Read what Shana posted above. Taping is horrible, (if you're not shaved), time consuming, and a hassle!
I wear 2 pairs of tite women's panties REVERSED! Perfect tuck and hold every time! Quick, easy, and no problems with or without erections!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
'Tis worth a shot, it does sort of violate my rule about wearing anything feminine in male mode but the benefits may be worth it.
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