What a difference a year makes.
Or maybe not so much.
We pick up where we left off exactly one year ago...
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Earlier this week, a new friend asked me a question and I recalled these threads and pointed her in that direction. What a better way to convey what I'm all about than to look at these threads.
So we're a year older. Perhaps a year wiser but that's debatable I'm sure. What are some of the momentous events in my life?
- The hair is still here and is in fact much longer. This is something that surprises me to a certain extent given how there are others in my life (wife in particular) who pretty much can't stand it and what it stands for. Still, my admittedly selfish stubbornness in this department keeps it around. It continues to be intertwined in my psyche.
- Electrolysis continues, though at a pace slower than I'd prefer.
- I continue to get out with friends which is a wonderful thing. The only downside is that I am not getting out often enough to see many of them as much as I'd like.
- I'm involved in a business venture with my friend Diana that is starting to show some real promise. This is a true labour of love.
- Diva Las Vegas has turned into an annual highlight and this year will be no exception. I am now part of their Administration Team in an elected position, something that perhaps isn't as big of a deal as it might sound but still, it's certainly an important responsibility and milestone in my "career path".
- And finally, when it comes to these pages, I find myself posting less. The turnover in membership has really become evident as I see fewer familiar faces with many who have stuck around also posting much less.
This all touches upon my place on a self-described middle path, holding on to the life I hold so dear while doing all I can to keep the gender-dragons at bay. My actions put me so very close to the fire. My words describe a unique place that sometimes seems as if it is shared by so few, yet I am often uplifted in learning of others just like me. This is part of what keeps me participating here.
My kind is an endangered species, and that is a good thing. Others of my age often share similar experiences in feeling they were alone when growing up. These days, with the easy accessibility of knowledge, there is no reason for one who might lean towards the TS side of things to find their path at a younger age.
Yet my resolve continues as I try to achieve happiness in finding balance. At this time, I'm pretty darned happy. I am excited to see what another year might have in store. As always, I hope for everyone in our community to find peace in their hearts as we spread positivity in whatever ways we are able.
Originally Posted by Sue
