Many posts here refer to wives. Some mention divorce. Is there any chance a marriage can withstand this? My wife has for the most part been supportive. This is mainly due to the relative peace which has ensued since my cross dressing has come out. We are long term married (31 years), children not at home. We have had many rough times due mainly to me filling a role I was not designed for. After she saw that, she accepted but she still doesn't know how deep the river runs. This will come out slowly as I learn more. I know from reading this board that I am similar to many others here so I expect to have similar successes and problems. I do have a stopping point though: if my marriage is placed in jeopardy my transition will stop. I cannot hurt my wife without destroying myself. So, are there any out there who have words to guide?