I agree with Kimdi93! Why would you want our opinions when you have a supportive GF? If you two are communicating and she is "REALLY" into it why would you give her the choice of your femme name. Afterall she will be the one who will call you by it. I have and wear a plaid skirt and it isn't edgy or punky in anyway! I must admit that in just 18 posts you have come a long way? I'm outta here!