Ok, So I'm not sure if this should go in the special occasions section since its the first time it happened.
So I'm at a local Gay club dressed in a moderate conservative knee length skirt and cardigan.
I'm with my girls having a good time. A drunk lady with a guy and a girl are standing next to me.
We start small chit chat. The lady blurts out "So your a guy" "Your outfit needs to be more sexy for going out, your outfit is not a going out outfit". I was taken back but stayed calm. She says "I say whatever I want I don't care".
She was wearing jeans and a sweater, a moderate casual outfit. Since she brought up the topic I asked her "So where is your sexy outfit today".
She all of a sudden got defensive and beligerently said "You don't think my outfit is sexy" and then went on a rant.
I said "It looks good, but I thought you meant short skirt when you said sexy". I was just trying to stay calm and clarify what I said.
She then keeps going on a rant then tells the guy she's with that I said she's not sexy.
The guy then talking to her and not looking at me says "Oh he doesn't look hot look he's got a wig with fake crooked breasts and makeup". I was shocked.
I stepped away. My girls pulled me aside to stay away. The drunk lady kept on pointing at me and threatening to get someone to beat me up. I tell the guy I didn't appreciate him insulting me and asked if he heard me say an insult to her. He said no and I said "Thats my point" and walked away giving him the hand.
He gets really angry and says "b** you are a man I'll rip your wig off and kick your ass". I was stuned, my girls and I walk to the other side of the club, he had to be held back by one of his friends.
I was looking for a security guy but could not see one in the club as a gay club is not a place where violence is common.
Later on I saw the same drunk lady pointing at me again saying "Thats the guy that insulted me" telling other men in the club. The men look at me and just shrug.
I saw them later on arguing with other people.
So at a gay club will security protect a T girl or CD as if she were a lady?? Or will they treat it as two men in an altercation??
I was a bit scared. But since I had girls with me it worked out ok. I know next time the moment a drunk gets loud with me to just walk away and ignore insults.