I told my wife about my crossdressing. There was no fighting, crying, or accusations of deception. Just quiet acceptance. Despite occasionally allowing me the time to do it, she seldom wants to talk about it. When we do I get the impression she feels trapped and must accept it despite her fears. She lets me do it because it's important to me, even though I think it tears her up inside. I know it creeps her out.
I don't want her to feel trapped. It makes me sad to think she feels this way, it says "I'm stuck with weirdo". Will time smooth it over or could it fester into something uglier later? She is the love of my life and everything to me. I would be devastated if this damages our relationship or worse.
Any advice? What has been your experience?