It seems that most of us, (I know I do) have a fear of negative reactions when going out enfemme. I try to dress as "classy" as possible, and make every attempt to blend, also ensuring my movements are as fem as possible. I just don't understand why some choose to go out in drab, but wearing significant female attire. I would think this attracts much more attention going out "50/50" as opposed to 100% femme. What is the purpose?

Please, I am not judging, criticizing, or directing any negative comments. I just don't understand this.