Wow! This one realy hit home. I think or thought I was a sissy in the early days (70&80s' for me) but now its the quest to be a lady, vixen in the bedroom, or was that sissy? Damn I don't know....
Wow! This one realy hit home. I think or thought I was a sissy in the early days (70&80s' for me) but now its the quest to be a lady, vixen in the bedroom, or was that sissy? Damn I don't know....
only if you feel like a sissy. and its funny, sure its derogatory when you're young, but the situation is quite reversed when a sissy grows up to be gorgeous. those same guys who called you sissy wanna date you! HA!
Beats being called a Ho! Or a Homo...Originally Posted by Katiegal
Curious Q: Any of your guy friends know about Katie? They might enjoy her, as you seem such a regular *person*.
Wow......amazing.
Many of you are so blinded by the forest that you aren't seeeing the trees.
Try reading Michelia's, Lisa Lee's, Frederiques's and Stevie's (very powerful post) again.
Once again, all the 'we hate labels' talk went right out the window.
Heck some of you even triple and quadrupled dipped you were so off on a witch hunt.
Sticks and stones indeed.
Last edited by Cassandra Lynn; 03-25-2012 at 10:12 PM. Reason: poor choice of words
What?
You mean I'm supposed to take ownership and be happy with a slur?
Well why didn't you say so?
I'll just use the name given to me in junior high! You can call me Faggot.
Am I doing it right?
My understanding of the term sisies as it applies to TG people is that it refers to a subgroup of CDs who have a certain fetish, are submissive and dress in young girl type petticoats---hence it is a descriptive term for members of this group. If used in that way I don't have a problem with it
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In junior high all the older kids called me MR , Not MR SISSY ,,, I would have not alowed that ,, Maybe MISS SISSY ,, Or MISS FAGGET ,,
Yull Find Out !!! lol,,,,
I don't know about you but I'm a Crossdresser it's who I'm It's what I do.
Having my ears triple pierced is AWESOME, ~~......
I can explain it to you, But I can't comprehend it for you !
If at first you don't succeed, Then Skydiving isn't for you.
Be careful what you wish for, Once you ring a bell , you just can't Un-Ring it !! !!
i always thought that term had real strong negative connotation within the CD community
No, it's about not letting someone who fires a slur at you to take ownership. If you let someone rent space in your head you have lost and they have won.
Insert any derogatory term you wish folks, it is only when you can shrug it off as some here have, that you can live life freely.
Thinking about this post has inspired me. Years ago, I remember an article by David Rakoff in which he described someone on the street calling him an 'art fag.' I thought, wow, how cool, that's a goal, to be an art fag. This started me back into crossdressing. I'm going to re-embrace that term.
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law.
No way. We should not be called sissies. It is not a respectable word.
As a kid, I hated the word because it was used in a derogitory way, as an insult to a little boy who wasn't 'enough of a man'. Now, it really doesn't bother me, because I know that being feminine has it's own qualities that being a traditional 'masculine man' doesn't have.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
You can call me a sissy anytime,anywhere and anyhow xoxo
On the porn sites a sissy is viewed a bit differently then what most of you are thinking. Then again maybe some of you are ok with that. What ever! It makes no difference to me what someone may have the guts to call me.
I believe I was a lesbian in a previous lifetime.
Doesn't apply to me with my definition: A male who is submissively directed to wear over the top girlie clothes and insulted and put down for it. I'm not into it!
Only if you are one?
I loved how you put that.
No! Not at all but my girlfriend always says "you're a girl!" when I'm wearing yoga pants.
I'm a literal PC monster, but I'm not so bad.
You can call yourselves anything you want but expect people to get pissy if you use derrogatory terms that should've long been deleted from the English language.
You want your BF/GF/****buddy to call you x, y, AND z?
Go nuts, no one cares what you do in the privacy of your bedroom/car/neighbour's kitchen table.
Quote Originally Posted by drushin703 View Post
"Since I am KING, I dont accept their beer guzzling, deer meat barbequeing, loud music blaring,
jersey wearing, fire cracker exploding, big bellied wisecracks thank you..BEING A CROSSDRESSER MEANS THAT WE ARE BETTER THAN
EVERYONE ELSE"
Now I am f**ked up. I love beer , barbeque, rock music, anything that explodes, wear a Crimson Tide jersey, AND I am a sissy.
My dear late wife used to call me her "sissy" just for fun. But anyone else who called me a Sissy was going to get the **** beat out of them!! I am a male who crossdresses, and that is the only way to describe me!!
Stephanie
Lady on the outside, but man underneath!
I find it interesting that you want to beat anyone who calls you a sissy when you named yourself with the same word.
Only when I am dressed and the wife tells me to bend over.
I hate it when my shoes get untied too.
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