Originally Posted by
Inna
[SIZE="3"]Liz, Do you want to have possibly grandchildren of your own blood or Don't![/SIZE] This is no longer about you controlling someone else life who by now is [SIZE="4"]AN INDIVIDUAL![/SIZE]
I talked to you before on the previous thread but now I am dumb found, simply speechless, what are you seeking especially knowing what you know about transgender issues, or DO YOU!
30-42% suicide rate and yet you do not trust you child not support her efforts to live life as she feels whole and just, LISTEN to her words, she is not asking for approval but simple fact of financial help.
I am being blunt, and perhaps the tone of this post cuts deeply, and may hurt, but I have directly experienced such doubtful passive support and it felt as though the person on the other end didn't love me a bit. I know different about you and yes you do love her very much but take the leap of faith, and support her heart not put up fences with deceitful trust or your own insecurities.
All she needs is a simple answer YES (if you can) or NO, but not lecture nor debate.
And even if you say yes, you have plenty of time to talk further which i am so sure you shall!
Let love conquer our fears, and allow truth to penetrate doubt.