This could be a long post, but truly need your opinion and advice. First-my SO don't know i crossdress, I think ? I have been crossdressing for over 50yrs. , married for 37 yrs. My SO once found a pair of my thongs, but I manage to convince her they might be one of are boys girlfriend's (they stay over once and awhile) and might have left it behind. This was probably 4yrs ago. About 2 yrs ago she found my black thong, that I had washed but forgot to hide, she asked me if it was mind and I said yes and told her I was curious about the feel and how they felt on my body. She processed to cut them to pieces and nothing was said again. About 6 months ago my SO found a sack of my girly clothing in the basement where I thought she would never look and find them (wrong). In the sack was black mini skirt, black matching bra and thong, black pantyhose, black 3" sandals, black /white blouse and a pair of made up breasts (bird seed). She totally ripped and cut-up all of this clothing. Also in the sack was a pair of black legging, cami, pair of black flat shoes these items were not in the sack????? She is not my size. Since than she has not said one thing to me about the sack of my fem clothing . I have no idea what this means. She has not treated me really in different since she found and ripped my fem clothes up. What is your opinion and advice? I would appreicate any advice.