I'm a new member here, with my cross-dressing having recently been disclosed to my wife. We are in "Don't ask/Don't Tell" mode, but I am looking forward to gaining more acceptance from her. I am trying to decide whether to tell her about this forum, and ask her to do some reading here, but I go back and forth on the issue. This place has been SO helpful to me already, but I'm un-decided as to whether it would be helpful to her.
Of those here who have SO's, does your SO know that you are a member of this forum?
If your SO knows that you are a member, does your SO also read the boards?
If your SO does (or did) read the forum, did anyone find it helpful or troublesome in your plight to gain understanding/acceptance?
If you are an SO of a crossdresser, perhaps you wouldn't mind providing an opinion based on your experience here? Did this forum help or hurt your relationship?
Thanks!