This post is actually related to a post started earlier by shawnsheila who had a don't ask don't tell relationship with her SO. (Relationship breakthrough!) Her SO was upset and angry when she found Sheila's stash and realized that Sheila's crossdressing hadn't disappeared but was simply hidden.
I too have a DADT relationship - and it seems logical to suppose that for my SO, finding a stash, inadvertent or not, would shatter the illusion that my dressing is no longer there, or in remission, or whatever, no doubt causing dismay and anger. Yet I know that my wife knows and I really don't want her to think that my need to crossdress is gone. It was a terribly difficult time when she discovered it many years ago and I sure don't want a repeat. But I just don't know how to raise the issue again without opening Pandora's box. Any thoughts on this? Please advise.
Kayla