What should I call myself , I am still not sure ?

[sexycrossdresser]

I am a bisexual ! I still like girls and guys both.

I do crossdressing and when I am a girl .. I can have a nice sexual relationship with guys / girls .. I mean I can have any type of sex with both the guys and girls !!

Also , when I am a guy. I still can make myself workout with both girls or boys.

I do love crossdressing alot and I am committed to it . Nothing planned yet to become a girl(doing HRT OR ANYTHING ELSE)

So what am I ?

A part-time crossdresser (bisexual) + a man(bisexual)

So what will you call me a TRANSGENDER / TRANSSEXUAL / CROSS DRESSER / TRANSVESTITE ?? JUST LEARNING.. PLEASE DO REPLY

[Deanna B]

hi sweetheart . sorry but why do you need a name ? . as long as you are happy and have fun with life i think that would be great all you need .i wish you all the best and hope you find what you are looking for . love deanna xxxxx

[Miriam-J]

First, you'll do a lot better if you don't get worked up about the labels. They're all so ambiguous as to be useless, and misused quite widely even within this community - even worse in the general population.

If you're a man and you want to be a man, then you're a man. If you're bisexual, you're bisexual as well. If you like to crossdress, you're also a crossdresser. None of those things are exclusive of one another.

I'll let others get into the other distinctions. I'm sure they're blasting your way any second now.

Miriam

[Nikki A.]

If you need a label I'd say you're bisexual and a crossdresser.

[Kaz]

Sounds to me like 'totally liberated person' comes to mind. I bet you have a great life!

[ArleneRaquel]

A human being. What other qualities, sexual or gender related, that you have are just aspects of your being human. Labels are fluid and really don't help solving anyone thing that matters, just get comfortable with who you are and be happy.

[Cheryl T]

As Shakespeare said, "A Rose by any other name..."
Who needs labels?
Just be yourself

[Emily Ann Brown]

Why not call yourself A HAPPY PERSON!!!


Em

[Lorenqt]

It doesn't matter what I would call you. This is something you have to work out yourself.

I was exactly where you are. Once you get it worked out and learn to accept yourself, life gets easier.

[Tamara Croft]

I don't understand you at all... on the 7th March when you joined here, you said you were a virgin and that day you just dressed for the first time as a CD... then on the 16th March you said, you're going to marry your master... now today you're having sex with everyone and no mention of marriage?

.... and it's only 22nd March today.....

I have a label for you, but it isn't in your list....

[ReineD]

You're a bisexual trangender. You can't get any more general or all encompassing than that.

Besides, most labels are just meant to give a general idea. For example, my general label is "heterosexual woman". However, if I choose to let someone know more about me, I need to use a few extra words, such as "a hetero woman who has what is considered traditionally male traits such as logic and reason , and who is in a happy relationship with a person who identifies dualgender, therefore I guess some people might identify me as a lesbian when I am sexually intimate with my SO while she is dressed and I'm OK with that. LOL

Edit Oh dear, just saw Tamara's post. Sounds like you can add, "who enjoys engaging in fantasy" to your label?

[Marleena]

I don't understand you at all... on the 7th March when you joined here, you said you were a virgin and that day you just dressed for the first time as a CD... then on the 16th March you said, you're going to marry your master... now today you're having sex with everyone and no mention of marriage?

.... and it's only 22nd March today.....

I have a label for you, but it isn't in your list....

During the intrduction thread I hinted the boobs were a bit too natural looking.

[sexycrossdresser]

I don't understand you at all... on the 7th March when you joined here, you said you were a virgin and that day you just dressed for the first time as a CD... then on the 16th March you said, you're going to marry your master... now today you're having sex with everyone and no mention of marriage?

.... and it's only 22nd March today.....

I have a label for you, but it isn't in your list....

Yes, I think I should reply you first lol,

I am still a virgin.A person loses his/her virginity when the (private part) take the other (private part) completely in or vice versa.(Cant explain more , since I dont know the rules) lol


I didn't do it completely with anyone , be it a guy or a girl.But yes , I did have alots of relationship with both girls / guys. :-./ I mean kissing/alots of touching everywhere/got released.Made others have great orgasms. :S . Thats the reason , I said I was a virgin.I am still committed to it .But yeh , I did have alots of guys / girls as my bf/gf.I just had no place to do it completely . You know what im saying.The reason was these ISLAMIC COUNTRIES.I cant even book a hotel.I need a marriage certificate for that :S ..

I hope I explained you Tamara.

@Others ..

I liked this one .. A bisexual fetish crossdresser .. Because I love bdsm too.I have alots of knowledge about it , and had a dominant lady control me .Now dont ask that your a virgin, how can that be done.It was just online.But I did spend alot of money on her. (Loved Financial domination and some punishments with her)

So this one sounds good .. BFC ( BISEXUAL FETISH CROSSDRESSER ) but this still isn't clear lol .Does it specify that I am also interested into being a dom and slave both . Slave as a man , slave as a girl, Master as a Man and Mistress as girl ?? ?

What I think that everyone in this world can enjoy all the sides.Just train your mind , and watch alots variety of porno.Porno does train you alot ..

I AM A LESBIAN TOO (T GIRL WITH ANOTHER TGIRL THINGY) . So , the final label I would give myself is . (All field operations Bisexual fetish crossdresser)



Well all of you , I need to know the label.The reason is , I am applying as a refugee to other countries.I want to get out of these Islamic countries and be a tgirl openly.I don't want to do it alone in my hotel room.I would love to marry a sincere sexy tgirl who loves me and I love her.I don't want to do polygamy.But I am single still(no serious relationship , because of the islamic countries and muslims too(muslims have too many limits))

Well everyone has different fantasies , but I seriously like men/women/******** etc(I am quoting ******** , because they are different from men/women).I dont want to make them feel a bit different or doing any discrimination.

Also, Its true.I don't if you all are thinking I am lying or something.I started by having sex with a guy.(WAS NOT MORE THAN 3-MONTHS.HE WAS A FRIEND FIRST)

Later on ( I went into girls, these girls as friends.. just became my sexual partners
but we didn't do it completely)

Then watched porn alot and educated myself about fetlife through fetlife site.

So I had a fetish to be Submissive fast , that wanted to be a Dom too.(May be I am a switch when it comes to Fetish life style)

After sometime, I came back to guys and girls together(In the past 2-3 months). I had short relationships.No one wanted a serious relationship , since it was almost impossible to do it in this country.So I also went for the short relationship.(3- ladies , 2 men)

I in also in the meantime was learning about crossdressing.6 MONTHS before , I had an urget to just be a girl.I first didn't like it , later on I enjoyed it .I got a job , and I am fulling my crossdressing fantasy.. it requires alots of money.

But its true , I am still a virgin.I couldn't do anything completely because of lack of space/accommodation.The shariah police SHUTS everything down.I don't want them to catch me for doing it .So for somedays.I am just doing nothing.

[lisal]

just call your self sexual, who needs labels? and enjoy yourself with others responsably.

[sexycrossdresser]

@Deanna , marym , Nikki , Cherly, Emily , Loren

Sorry , for not replying you guys in all different post.But the thing is I am a happy person.I know that.I just want the label , to write in my visa application form.So that they allow me to take refugee.Can't wait to do crossdressing in public . I ain't shy at all . I just need a nice place where it is legal to do it .So , I just want to tell the real label.Who am I for the immigration guys. got it ?

@Marleena .. thanks &_&
@Reine You seem having the same brain like me confused + puzzled = confuzzled

@Ms arlene yes , I do agree with you .Thanks for the comments ( everyone)

@kaz , yes I am . Thankyou very much.

@Scarlet Rose. Lol I liked your label hehehe

@Lisa . Yes , But I need a label to explain the immigration officers to get refugee

[DianeDeBris]

I have a label for you, but it isn't in your list....

Amen to Tamara! I'm not sure precisely how many internal contradictions, factual inconsistencies, cultural errors, language/grammar lapses (into good, idiomatic American English) and outright screaming falsehoods there are in the massive host of postings by this individual, but I got up to fifty without even trying. We're being gamed.

[Kate Simmons]

You are yourself my friend, nothing more or less. If you want a name and are Bi, I would suggest one that fits either way. Best wishes, Kate.

[ReineD]

We're being gamed.

Honestly I don't think so. I think he's a libidinous, educated, young Arab who lives in one of the more liberal Arab states (where women have rights) and where there are nightclubs, yet that is under Sharia law, and who has the advantage of the internet to learn about all the things that Westerners partake of. He's enthusiastic, to say the least. It's a sign of the times there.

[Bree-asaurus]

Unless you're gonna transition, undergo HRT, change your name/sex, get SRS or whatever, who cares what you are? Just be yourself and do what you do.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Your just a Crossdresser having way too much fun.

[STACY B]

NOT , SURE ? Off idiocracy ? The same NOT SURE ,, No way never figured that would happen ?

[Kristyn Hill]

My head is spinning. I would of said bi crossdresser but Tamara and Diane have me thinking... If you are gaming us there is no reason. If not, be happy and be with who you want and keep your head up.

[sexycrossdresser]

My head is spinning. I would of said bi crossdresser but Tamara and Diane have me thinking... If you are gaming us there is no reason. If not, be happy and be with who you want and keep your head up.

@KRISTYN Well , I am not gaming.I dont need to game.Also Tamara may be accidently took me wrong. You have to understand they are different people online here and posting.Different cultures , background etc.A virgin sometimes more about sexuality that a non-virgin.Its just a virgin doesn't get a chance easily !!

NOT , SURE ? Off idiocracy ? The same NOT SURE ,, No way never figured that would happen ?

@stacy , i think i shouldn't go for a label alots of the girls here are right.

Unless you're gonna transition, undergo HRT, change your name/sex, get SRS or whatever, who cares what you are? Just be yourself and do what you do.

@bree_k :S .. hey you look so sweet and cute.Your so pretty.Yeh , I am still not turning into a woman completely.But I have plans , when I get out of these countries.

You are yourself my friend, nothing more or less. If you want a name and are Bi, I would suggest one that fits either way. Best wishes, Kate.

@ kate thanks sweetie.

Honestly I don't think so. I think he's a libidinous, educated, young Arab who lives in one of the more liberal Arab states (where women have rights) and where there are nightclubs, yet that is under Sharia law, and who has the advantage of the internet to learn about all the things that Westerners partake of. He's enthusiastic, to say the least. It's a sign of the times there.

@RenieD.. awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww im blushing.You all show me so much love.Seriously , never saw such a forum like this.Seriously ! I love you all from the bottom of my heart.I mean it *hugs* and *kisses*

Your just a Crossdresser having way too much fun.

@blue orchid.Yes for now , i dont want any labels to show off..I just wanted to give it to the VAC here , so that they can forward my application.. im not too serious with labels.I know every individual is different.

@DianeDeBris sorry , i couldn't understand your post clearly.I am not a native english speaker , thats why .. if you can explain it . it would be cool.Sorry for this stupid interruption in the thread from me :-/



Note : I dont want this thread to be a hit or something.Just replying , so that no one minds.And its against basic ethics that someone is posting on your thread and you dont reply.