I'm wondering if CDing is the last non criminal stigma that there is. It seems that gays and lesbians are now accepted and being open about it will not normally cost you your job and friends.
However, wearing women's clothing can cost you a career, friends and family. We feel that we must need to run and hide if someone knocks on our door, looks over a fence etc.
What is wrong with wearing a nice top or a even having painted nails. It seems that it is easier to go all out and dress completely than to partially dress.
I know that some of you already do it, and you will say that if we were more open maybe things will change. But at what cost to the trailblazers.
I do try to do my part in making a change. I do go out and if asked, I do explain my thoughts and desires, but I also explain that I am only giving my thoughts and that others wants and desires are different. It seems on a one on one basis people seem to be understanding.
Opinions or thoughts