hello:
typical story .... hetro male, strong desires since puberty, countless lingerie collections compiled and thrown out between the ages of 16-25 due to guilt, finally acceptance with my fetish and dressing in private when the irrepressible urge and opportunity is there. now in my 40's married and still dressing alone and in private i feel a burning desire to share this fetish, on occasion with an understanding woman, most likely a professional role player or transformation specialist who completely understands the heterosexual fetish cross dresser, knows what makes us tick, and has an "honest and sincere appreciation" for this particular type of fetish. as mentioned prior i am happily married but choose not to broach the subject or try to integrate this into my marriage, i would like to keep this a separate component of my life.
what are your thoughts on finding that special understanding female? do you think there are a lot of women out there who "truly and honestly" enjoy dress up games with cross dressers, or do you think that most of them just play along to keep the man happy but could really take it or leave it? my friends and i have always joked that we think that at least 50% of women are at least bi-curious. i often fantasize about finding a bored middle aged women who is personally secure, uninhibited and would love to experiment.
it would be nice to hear other thoughts and ideas on this topic.