I openned the closet door and walked out. Yesterday I told my wife about my crossdressing. We are seperated due to totally different reason. I fell in love with someone else. Didn't work out but that is ok. Anyway, she was shocked and started crying. She didn't want to talk to me. She acted like I was a freak. My parting shot to her was to go to the internet and read about crossdressing and maybe she will understand.
She did and seems to accepted me for who I am. We talked about it today and she seemed deeply interested and tried to understand my feelings. I really appreciate this forum and all the sites on the internet that try to convey what we feel.
She even wants to help me dress up sometime. We seem a little closer today. Maybe this is what we needed to get back together.
Thanks to everyone for your help and encouragement.