so how about an update? im no longer with my girlfriend she broke up with me and i alredy ordered an outfit and make up and have a guy waiting to have me over his house. i hope im making the right choice but this is wut i end up doing.
so how about an update? im no longer with my girlfriend she broke up with me and i alredy ordered an outfit and make up and have a guy waiting to have me over his house. i hope im making the right choice but this is wut i end up doing.
Last edited by Momarie; 05-26-2012 at 06:06 PM.
[SIZE="4"]Momarie[/SIZE]
Is it any wonder why she left you?
Agreed Momarie. There is no such thing as "mostly straight" As for this fantasy... whatever flosts your boat. But I find it disgusting and in my opinion, in very poor taste to post it as a way of a first post. No doubt the OP thinks this is a porn site...it ain't.
ZING POW and call the national guard. Yes, as a first post it was on the edge of what we normally expect to see....ok, a bit past it and make a left turn but...if it was an honest query then you need a shot of self esteem. If you spend the primacy of your youth chasing the next sexual high then you are not allowing yourself to grow as an actual individual. I think perhaps in my outhouse opinion you are bisexual with strong leanings towards men. You get a girlfriend and suppress it, so to punish and reward yourself (classic love/hate), you get involved in meaningless sexual encounters.
There is nothing wrong with wanting to have sex with men while you are dressed, but trolling craig's list and the internet is not going to find you anyone but a sexual partner. If you want to find anything worthwhile in your life stop hiding behind this promiscuous behavior, make some well thought out decisions and find someone to develop a relationship with, then if it builds to something more it will be so much better.
BE FAITHFUL-no matter whether you choose to play outside or swing for the home team be faithful to the person you are with.
Good luck out there and I hope at least you are playing safe!!
Peace,
Khelli
Jus' tryin' to send and understanding your way.
As mentioned in a previous thread along these same lines, you better actually know that man personally, or you may not be around to post on here (or anywhere else) again!
As for that "thug" type (race doesn't matter), I have known a number of GGs who find that type of man attractive and have been involved with one. Not surprisingly, the GG ends up being treated like total garbage and it never ends well. Don't mistake dominance for exploitation, that kind of man does not love a woman, they only live to use and exploit others. If you wouldn't want someone living next door to you, you don't want that person in your bedroom, I guarantee it.
I missed Kathi's post since this thread bothers me in so many ways. But I agree wholeheartedly too.
I had a 7 year member PM me about how she is disgusted with some recent threads. She said, " I've been around here for 7 years and have just slightly over 300 posts. Theres a reason for that. Most of the threads I read here just make me shake my head, and they seem to be getting worse by the week. I had to agree.
We all have our types but sleeping with a black guy because of the stereotype that they're hung, aggressive, and dangerous is just so racist...
The concept that men of other races have well-endowed genitalia seems odd.....does that apply to their female counterparts who have big hoo-ha's?
Race means nothing to me.
This morning , I saw a robin, a blue jay, and a cardinal on my maple tree ...they look like birds to me.
Once in a while I pick up my entertainment newspaper. In the back section, it has blonde escorts, russian escorts, asian escorts, ******* escorts. Not my thing.
I'm a dude that dresses like a lady from time to time. That's all
Your anything but straight.
these sexual stereotypes about men of this or that race ARE racist... they objectify people and they're double-edged swords: stereotyping black men as dominant or as "thugs" makes it easier for society to be afraid of them and to lock them up or shoot them... it's all connected. as somebody said we all have our types but please think a little about what you're doing... race and sexuality are both complicated things and these stereotypes just simplify them and do a lot of harm...
I think you're all confusing the OP with another poster who said that almost a month ago.
The standard faire applies, be safe and all that and remember you can say no.
OP Finding black guys attractive: Not racist
Poster who said they were uneducated/ect...: Racist
Wait a second, here.
I think this is getting blown rather WAY out of proportion.
Why is is racist? Lots of genetic women have that same fantasy, and it's anything but racist for them. Because this is a CD having it....that makes it racist? Sorry, I don't see how.
Agreed. Definitely, the OP is NOT straight. If you are male, and you have fantasies about having sex with men, then you are, at the very least, bisexual. Someone who's straight wouldn't have those kinds of fantasies.Also, you might want to totally re-think your describing yourself as a "most of the time a straight male".
Last edited by ReineD; 05-27-2012 at 01:53 PM. Reason: I've edited the TMI out of Urmilla's post and any responses to it.
"Taking the time to be in touch with my feminine side"
Actually, since you have acted on this fantasy, you might as well just say you are bisexual. I don 't happen to share that tendency, but i don't understand the outrage of some of the responses. Do your thing and have fun.
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law.
I for one am more shocked at the responses than the original poster. I hope this thread is closed ASAP. For people to use such vulgar language and be so rude is to me a much worse offense than the original post. We are a community who is varied but I hope decency and common courtesy is still the utmost importance.
Specifically, please use barrier protection and if possible, see if your prospective partner has a recent STI test. (that's not foolproof, but it's better than not having one... Having many partners safely is much, much Safer than fewer partners without barrier protection and precautions.
It is more than likely a healthy fantasy of yours.
We all have fantasies and as we do not act on them we hurt no one.
I have been caught out so many times wearing playboy bunny outfits, getting into trouble and having to be the maid to dominant women and going in beauty contests.
Yes! it's all in my dreams.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
I agree, but I trust the decision on the moderators even if it's not what I think about it. But I might want it closed for different reasons that you do. I just find it offensive to our GG members. I support the GG's that have said as much with their feelings being known in their posts to this disgusting thread.
I have just read through the posts more closely and although there are issues about political correctness et al.
It is someone expressing a fantasy, if it was read on this basis it would not lead to all the stretches of imagination it has.
I am the recipient of dirty jokes by a number of people some of them gg's. The rule is if you don't like the joke move on, if it is to your liking comment or forward it on.
No hen fights or scratching eyes out just remember others see different things in the same situation.
Fantasy to one person is porn to another, so it is good to see the background of how something was written.
Remember a first time poster probably has less insight into the moral values on the forum than someone who has been here for a long time.
Even I have foot in mouth disease and misread the temperature of a situation.
Maybe I am wrong here but some posts need to be read with the experience or lack of the poster in mind.
A further comment... The bunfight seems to have evolved later in the post I notice the first few posters have put the lid on it nicely.
Also the thread is the original posters property and not some stage for later posters who have probably not even read the original post.
Hey! Please enjoy the rest of the day wherever you may be.
Last edited by Beverley Sims; 05-27-2012 at 01:11 PM. Reason: Typo and further comment.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
I dated a black girl with a strap-on. That might be the best of both worlds for you.
But I've met more than one white CD who is married and actually does do this -- dressing up as skanky as possible and picking up black guys. And still tries to say they're straight and love their wife. That's something we should all be offended by.