How far will you go to be feminine.

[katie_barns]

Being fairly new here this may have been asked before, if so I apologize.

On another site I saw a post that asks; If there was a magic pill that could change you into a woman [GG] would you take it. That site was for Transgender not necessarily CD's. I though it would be interesting to see how people here thought about that.

I am not only CD but consider myself Transgender. [Not transsexual] I waited a little late in life to even consider transitioning, but if I had to do it all over again. It might be a different story

With that said. YES I would take the pill and not even give it a second thought.

[daviolin]

That is a loaded question Kate. In my true feelings yes I would take the pill. But in reality, my wife would be upset. And I do truely love my wife. Daviolin

[Jenniferathome]

Not a chance in hell. Putting on a wig, makeup and a dress is enough for me.

[SallyS]

For real....Laser hair removal....not that I'm that hairy....grow my hair long....like the good 'ol days....grow my nails (which do grow quickly).

Sheer fantasy....be 4 inches shorter and a size 10

[Cheryl T]

That is a loaded question Kate. In my true feelings yes I would take the pill. But in reality, my wife would be upset. And I do truely love my wife. Daviolin

This is my reality also. My spouse is so supportive and wonderful I couldn't place her in that position.
She deserves more, more than I give now and more than I could ever give.

[Chardonnay Merlot]

No, I wouldn't. I enjoy me in all my facets. I would never want to eliminate one side to enhance the other.
I embrace the masculine and the feminine for they both make up that beautiful creation known as me.

[Sarasometimes]

I passing on the pill (pun intended). I'm a crossdresser no a transexual. I like being male and the equipment associated with it. Now a pill, that everyone MUST take that makes them not care that I dress like a woman at times, start the distribution now!

[Foxglove]

Where can I get one of those pills?

[kimdl93]

The magic pill question has been asked often. But you asked how far we would go to be feminine. That's a question that doesn't require a magic pill. And we each can answer by noting how far we have actually gone.

In my case the changes have been primarily superficial or cosmetic . I have a fairly nice wardrobe, a couple of good quality wigs, breast forms and shapeware...all aimed at achieving a feminine appearance.

But the real change has been inside. As I've grown more confident in my appearance ive grown more interested in presenting myself as a woman in myevery day life. That's a big change in the way I think from even a couple of years ago. And although I realistically cant really feel the way a woman feels...I feel feminine on the inside to a much greater extent than in the past. I cant say if I'm peeling away a masculine facade to reveal my true self or if inpresenting as feminine I am rewiring my brain in some manner. Either way I am definitely changing.

[EllieOPKS]

Cross dressing gives me the best of both worlds so I would give the pill to someone that wanted the best of one world.

[Tina B.]

I too consider myself, as transgendered, not a transsexual, but in a different life, without the wife, kids, and grandkids, I would have taken that pill, I've always said, I would have been happier in one gender, and I'm open to either. But because of all those people I mentioned, I am afraid I will have to pass.
Tina B.

[Marleena]

Knowing what I know now I would have taken it in my teenage age years for sure. Since I have a wife and kids now the answer is no.

I'm lucky to have a wife that understands I'm TG so that helps because I prefer girl mode hands down.

[Andria]

If that "Magic Pill" had a second half to it that would reverse the changes, then yes. I wouldn't hesitate.

[aprilmaeflowers]

If that "Magic Pill" had a second half to it that would reverse the changes, then yes. I wouldn't hesitate.

Talk about getting a Patent...Ehh

[Kimberly Long]

I dressed all my life, I am transgender and live 24/7 as Kimberly for the past 3 years. About 5 years ago I took the pill "HRT treatment" with great results. I am 72 and would like to have the surgery but I know that it is to late in life to do that. I totally love every day of my new life.
I wish you the best
Love Kimberly

[Kate Simmons]

I guess that would depend on what your intentions are and what you are trying to accomplish. Had I been born female, I'd have no choice but I was born male, so have one.

[AlanaG]

Knowing what I know now I would have taken it in my teenage age years for sure. Since I have a wife and kids now the answer is no.

I'm lucky to have a wife that understands I'm TG so that helps because I prefer girl mode hands down.

I'm with Marleen. I would have about 40-45 years ago.

[StacyPump]

I enjoy my male side, and I enjoy and love my wife and family, so I do not desire to transition, or present female all of the time. So, the short anser to the question of how far I will go, is that I don't think I will go very, very far to be feminine.

I do sometimes wonder or wish that I had just been born a girl. But, given the reality, and the life I have, and the love I have for those around me, I'll enjoy dressing en femme every now and again, but also enjoy my life and role as a man.

Now, if there were TWO pills, one that could change me into a woman, and another to change me back to a man, I'd keep them both in the cabinet at all times. I don't see this as a contradiction. I am a man, but I am a femmophile. The pill, at least in my fantasy, would just be a more fulfilling way to experience and express my female side.

[janet54]

No!!!!! I like being a cd. I have a loving wife who is my best friend!!!!! And supports me. Helps with dressing and advice.

[Stephanie47]

If I took the pill, I would no longer be a cross dresser! Would I relish being a woman; the clothes, high heels or childbirth, dirty diapers, being paid 77 cents on the dollar as a woman??? Would I become a FTM cross dresser to explore the masculine side of me??

Nothing wrong with being a woman, but, why trade the devil you know for the devil you don't? I'll remain myself and let Stephanie come out and play when she wants.

[Cynthia Anne]

Bring on the pill! I'm the first in line! Hugs!

[Bunny Girl Zoe]

Wish there was a magic pill to turn into female as I take it in a flash.

[katie_barns]

Interesting! It seems most wouldn't. Maybe I am more Transsexual than I thought !!!! But like most I would have a hard time doing that to my family. Years ago OH yes!

Thanks for all your responses.

[DeniseNJ]

As many CD's in here I started when I was about 5-6. I guess I was born a CD. I believe the longer you are a CD the farther you wuill go be be feminine. Yes I have thought about over the counter hormones as of late . All I know is I have taken me being feminine more in the last 6 years than ever before. Piercing my ears will be a major step but it is something I will have to do someday.

[Kelly Greene]

I think I will only go as far as I have to. At present it's making time to dress on weekends but in the feature I may go further, one constant is that I don't think I will need SRS but other
than that I just don't know all options are open.